This guest post is by Nathan Hangen empire building a digital computer.
I remember back to the beginning of 2008, when I just started blogging, is that although I had a great aspirations of knowledge, of my expertise, of confidence as a blogger is missing. I stumbled over my career before year-blogs I really had a good grip on things, and even then I struggled with many things.
But above all, through all the struggles I was one of the enemy that kept popping up time and again, each time in a different way than the last. This enemy was a goat determined, hand, eventually, I had no choice but to confront it, or to engage a cumulative life forever.
Finally, the moment of Bruce Wayne's brightness, I decided to turn this around the face of the enemy, and it.The name was fear, seven ways, he tried to take me.Here are the tactics used to fight back.
I never thought having too many ideas will be a bad thing, but what is worse, I never suspected that the culprit in fact be the fear itself.
The early days, I found that only when you get close to complete the idea, I suddenly be filled with dozens of new ideas. as a result, I can move the concept idea, one never finishing. eventually, I realized my fear of going all in a single idea was saving me from being successful as a blogger.
Tactic 1: stop playing the concept idea and ship those you are already committed.
After I was committed to a single idea, often I found myself running out of things to write about. This was not to be all ideas, but I was too afraid to speak on them.
"What if people make me?"
"What if people think I'm idiot?"
"What if I don't really know what I'm talking about?"
This type of self-talk killer blog is an excellent way to take yourself out of the fight in front of you an opportunity to grow.Successful bloggers do not work from their best ideas, give them the world.
Tactic 2: don't be afraid to be you. Start the flame out into a wildfire.Some of the best bloggers I know are more personal, more open, even I'm comfortable with, guess what … their audience love them for it.
My wife often asked me this very: "who cares what you think?"
And time, it hurt like a dagger, not because it's a silly question, but because it's one I was asking myself every day.
"Who really cares what I think?"
"Why does my ideas matter?"
This is an issue of confidence, and that fear of love play games and serious. First of all, it doesn't matter if anyone cares what you think.The only person to use it yourself.Furthermore, there are people just like you everywhere, you will be surprised how come out of hiding to come when they see a real leader.
Can't be everything to everyone, but can be a great leader who resonate with, and connect people with ideas and philosophies. However, they cannot do that if you do not share them.
Tactic 3: Seth Godin wrote that bshbti, the truth is that Yes – we need you to lead us to people care what you think, in fact, far more than you imagine.Must have to share it; don't be selfish.
I see this one all the time.Bloggers still call themselves hobby bloggers even though they don't want to be. they call themselves the list b, or c-list even when they are able.
Fear and love to tell you that you are not good enough to be great, because you always you bound the role of a follower, or second rate this talent.That's not true, but it's easy to fall prey to this type of call.
There are rules to say that only the average blogger. in fact, the road is wide open for anyone ready to go.
Tactic 4: stop cutting yourself, give yourself permission to be great.Nobody was going to ask you to be wonderful, but they are a step in a minute you're ???????.Require the authority;Do not wait.
I remember a trembling at the thought of asking our brother guest posting opportunity blogger.The name was Caroline Middlebrook, though we talked a little via email, I was nervous as hell to ask her permission. Finally one day and just do it, and guess what?Success! unfortunately, I see many bloggers fear this step, as a result, they toil isolation for years.
I joked with Kelly Diels about it one time — asking guest blogger post opportunity is like asking a friend to go on a date with you great relationships may Twitter or section comments, but you don't want to ruin it for the purpose of the guest post … so wait.
Tactic 5: Word is not something to fear, rather than fearing it needs to get used to hearing it cannot display not hitting ??????????'??, but rather a way to get one step closer to Yes.If the simple act of executing a request enough to destroy a relationship, then it wasn't worth it.
People are just going to show on your blog and offer to send you money for free via e-mail;You must be able to offer something.
You are told time and again there is a need to develop your own online store, which means that you have started planning a series of products, courses, webinars and anything else you can think of.But where to stop.
For some reason, there is always something that gets way of getting your product actually ended.
You know that's true, but you can do this anyway.
Look, I know it's not easy to sit down and create a product, the minute you try to do this, you're getting confusing. it's easier to do, but have to fight it.
Tactic 6: don't let the resistance forever. instead of targeting a fear of losing time to do something else, or your ability to create the perfect product, focus on the positive … to focus on creating a product, delivery. like blogs, takes perfect, but never get there if you are running.
This is a large one, unfortunately, probably the most common fear in blogosphere. how you can make money when you love what you do? how do you ask if a friend or colleague to buy something, especially when you want to see them comment retweet your blog posts?
Well here's the deal, if they are not asking for the sale and then never get one case has been closed.
You can try to avoid pages sales "scammy", large launches or affiliates, but unless you have an army of people waiting for you to sell something, probably never going to weak work. If you want to make a living doing this, you have to fight for it; do not be afraid of closing.
Tactic 7: get comfortable asking sale. find every opportunity that you can practice it, and save up to fear disappears. eventually, I will become second nature, promise you.
In my opinion the biggest fear is by contacting bloggers all this hard work they are doing is never going to pay. I know how it feels.
Don't want to spend time on something that won't work., you want to "smash" and you want to make a difference ... you don't want to lose or to look stupid.
The best advice that can give you is this:
No one knows if what you're doing is going to pay. However, I can say without reserve that as long as you want to succeed, with all the fiber in your soul, you are ready to do what it takes to do so (this means may offset gears or changing your business), then the monster fear won't be something close to chance battle against you.
Rotating, mirroring the fear in her eyes, and he ends up hitting, Mortal Kombat style.
Nathan Hangen is initiated, as well as the author writes about building digital Empire. If you're tired of letting fear get the way of your success, click here to get free eyes of fear fuel, revolutionary course for entrepreneurs.
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